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Free Meridian Therapy charts
and tips for clients
Even if you have no knowledge
of EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) and the other energy techniques I use, it is easy to
start working by phone. I can email or post you
free charts, a free mini-workbook and client worksheets to guide you through the
process. You will have the charts in front of you when we
start working, and you can use them between coaching sessions
when working on your own. You will need to pay for a session
before receiving the free charts - in the meantime there is lots
of free material available on
www.emofree.com if you want to learn about EFT .
What is Energy Coaching?
Energy Coaching is the
application of energy therapy (also known as meridian
therapy, emotional freedom techniques or energy psychology)
techniques to life and personal coaching.
This group of techniques is used
to rapidly defuse negative thought and feeling patterns
using acupressure (gentle tapping on meridian points using
the fingers) while at the same time making relevant positive
statements. The basic procedure is simple and can be
learned in a few minutes (charts to help you will be
provided by email or as downloads). As well as working
through issues with your coach/ energy therapy practitioner,
you will learn to use the routines for simple self-therapy,
stress management and confidence building anywhere you are -
versions of the techniques can be used unobtrusively in
social situations when you need them. A wide range of issues
can be helped by these techniques.
How Energy Coaching techniques developed
Energy psychology techniques
began with a discovery by Roger Callahan, Ph.D., a clinical
psychologist, that a phobia could be cured by tapping on a
spot under the eye that relates to the stomach meridian in
Chinese medicine theory. The meridians are pathways for the
body's subtle energy flow (called chi in Chinese
medicine). Instead of the prevalent supposition that lasting
emotional disturbances are "hard-wired" in the brain, energy
psychology views the disturbance as a "thought field" that
is disrupting the body's energy system. When accupressure
(finger tapping techniques) are performed, the negative
emotions can reduce greatly in intensity and disappear. This
process can be accomplished in much less time than
conventional counselling or psychotherapy.
Further refinements of energy
psychology were made by Gary Craig, a student of Dr
Callahan, who developed Emotional Freedom Techniques or EFT
(see www.emofree.com)
EFT is simpler to use as it uses more standardised
procedures than can be remembered easily, and the basic
method is very easy to learn. Various other practitioners
developed their own additions to the method to make EFT an
extremely versatile therapy. Elements of NLP, reframing and
affirmation work have been added and the field is constantly
growing.
EFT is extremely suitable for
integration with life coaching because it shares a similar
philosophy based upon the independence and self-responsibility
of the client and giving the client choice about what issues
to work on. Most coaching issues can be helped using EFT to
work on the underlying beliefs, attitudes and emotions that
are holding you back from making positive changes. EFT
can also be used to help access positive inner resources and
to develop positive attitudes towards change and abundance,
thereby increasing the likelihood of success. EFT can also
be used to maintain equilibrium in times of crisis when we
need to reconsider the options available in order to move
forward. EFT can also be used as a general de-stressing
technique: ask your coach for tips for times you regularly
need help with stress, for example commuting.
EFT by phone
EFT is ideally suited to work by
phone. The client is taught with the aid of diagrams to tap
on specific points while concentrating on certain thoughts
and repeating certain statements. The EFT coach or therapist
guides the client to uncover different facets or "aspects"
of the problem, and that is an essential task for major
issues as each part of the problem creates its own "thought
field" or energy blockage that is given its own tapping
routine. Without uncovering the crucial pieces of the
emotional jigsaw puzzle, the presenting issue might persist.
Another key role of the practitioner is to help the client
formulate the statements said while performing the tapping
routines. Clients often have inhibitions against saying the
positive statements and need encouragement or help rewording
the statements so they are acceptable to the client.
Sometimes there are other signs of deep self-sabotage that
the practitioner shows the client how to tackle.
Applications of Energy
Psychology/ Energy Coaching techniques
EFT can help with many issues
including confidence, assertiveness, fears, procrastination,
stress, anger, tension, anxiety, unwanted habits, loss,
inner child issues, forgiveness issues, weight reduction,
and most issues that could also be treated by counselling or
hypnotherapy. People who are progressing well with other
therapies and become "stuck" may benefit from some EFT in
order to move forward.
EFT can help in managing pain
especially pain related to tension. If a client has a
physical illness, his/her doctor's involvement is essential
though EFT can be taught as a complementary self-help
technique. EFT can be used as a tool to help uncover
the emotional factors that may relate to an illness, and
clearing emotional and energy blocks can theoretically aid
recovery. An EFT coach can help a person to manage
illness by through emotional self-help and energetic
balancing. (Remember that EFT is a complementary from of
help - it does not replace medical treatment).
Coaching issues that can be
addressed with EFT can include any issue where there is an
internal conflict, self-sabotage, negative thinking or
negative feelings that get in the way of achieving the
client's particular aim. EFT can also be used to build up
positive feelings and resources so as to be stronger, more
confident and more focused. A positive sense of the future
can be "built in" to replace negative imaginings. EFT can be
used for attracting abundance by replacing negative beliefs
about having enough with positive ones.
The applications of EFT are
limitless, and new applications are constantly appearing on
the www.emofree.com
site which is the major resource for all those interested in
EFT. There is a saying in EFT - "use it on
everything!" or "try it on anything!"
Self-acceptance
A key part of EFT and similar
techniques is self-acceptance. Change starts by accepting
yourself as you are, no matter what faults you have or think
you have. (That makes sense because most emotional issues
stem from not being accepted, loved, recognised, respected
or treated well by another, or being told that we are
defective in some way.) For most people the self-acceptance
part is easy but for people with stronger issues of guilt,
conflict, etc., the EFT practitioner will help you to find a
form of self-acceptance or self-recognition that will work.
Emotional Freedom Reiki
(EFR)
Emotional Freedom Reiki is
variation of EFT developed by Reiki Master and Life Coach
Stephanie Brail that combines EFT, Reiki and chakra healing.
Like EFT it is done using acupressure tapping and
incorporates sending Reiki energy into the chakras to
energise positive statements. Practitioners should be Reiki
masters or have Reiki Second Degree. It is ideal for clients
who have at least Second Degree Reiki, though if the client
is not attuned to Reiki, the client performs a simple
healing visualisation instead and the practitioner sends
Reiki by distant healing. Any issue suitable for EFT can be
adapted to EFR. Like EFT, EFR is well suited to phone
work and to life coaching.
Learning and Doing EFT by Yourself
EFT was specifically created as
a method that is easy to learn and to do oneself, and it is
even widely taught to children. Many books on Emotional
Freedom Techniques are available, and a free introductory
manual is downloadable from
www.emofree.com However, as with any other
self-help method, the time can come when you are out of your
depth, feel that you are resisting, need help and are not
sure what to do next, or have an issue that is too emotive
for you to proceed on your own. A professional EFT
practitioner will listen to you, guide you gently through
the maze and help you focus on the next steps. He or she
might suggest doing your EFT differently or adding an extra
technique. Practitioners will also look out for factors that
might be interfering with the smooth working of EFT, and
these can include food or environmental sensitivities that
might affect your energy flow.
Notes for the skeptic
EFT at the moment is a
complementary, experimental treatment that does not have
widespread scientific acceptance. However, scientific
studies on its precursor, Thought Field Therapy, have shown
it to affect heart rate variability, which a placebo cannot
do. Various research studies are in progress and if you go
to
www.emofree.com
and type "research" into the
search box you will find various articles and reports.
It is not necessary for the
practitioner or the client to "believe" in the existence of
meridians or subtle energy flows to benefit from EFT.
It is not faith healing. In some peoples' opinion, EFT is a
specialised form of suggestion. Nevertheless, it can work!
Qualifications
For details of qualifications
held by Morris see the "about
the coach" web page.
Morris is not a medical doctor
and and cannot diagnose or cure physical illness. If you
have a medical condition, seek help from your doctor.
Fees and Payment
Where EFT is part of life
coaching, it will be incorporated into the relevant coaching
fee / plan - see plans and
fees.
If extra or stand-alone EFT work
is needed, the fee is £ 40 per hour or pro-rata.
Morris Berg is only offering EFT/EFR
by phone or Skype, and will work with clients anywhere in
the world.
Distant Reiki healings
Further information to follow.
Some External Resources
To learn more
about Emotional Freedom techniques you can explore the
following resources on external sites:
A Quick
Lesson in Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) by S.A Ramratan
(Natural News magazine)
EFT featured on About.com
EFT scripts
available as downloads and mp3 from eft-downloads.com
Emofree.com - Massive web
site by the originator of EFT with many free resources
including free manual and free videos
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without permission in writing.
email Morris at
hspcoach@gmail.com
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